Marriage Tips for Date Night for Tomorrow Night

Is your marriage in a slump? Is the thrill almost gone? Don't you know that over 50% of all marriages fail and many of those once heavenly relationships don't even make it past the first year's anniversary. Many reasons or situations contribute to the failure of a marriage. The top three high level reasons are: lack of communication or poor communication; financial issues and Marriage Boredom Syndrome. Yes, Marriage Boredom Syndrome (MBS). All of these circumstances can exist in a perfectly healthy and enduring marriage. Listen, put a candle on the table and find a babysitter for the kids! Its' date night time for tomorrow night!

Here are some tips that will give you the medicine to stomp out the number one disease in a marriage: MBS! Is your marriage worth saucing up a little? Can you stand a little imagination for some stimulation?

These are the 5 simple basic steps "Date Night for Tomorrow Night".

1. Take the time right now to think about what positive elements brought you and your partner together before you got married. Let those playful juices of lust, pleasure, and excitement possess your soul. Laugh at yourselves having so much puppy love fun again! When you can laugh - the magic begins! It's Prom Night - Re-Run!!

- This is so critical towards making your Date Night Successful! It's Your Imagination!!! That is what sparked the puppy love magic in the courting days of the relationship! Concentrate on those moments and particular things your partner did that turned you on!! Close your eyes and visualize these moments! The imagination works toward stimulating a "Happy Feeling" long enough to once again day dream about your partner's..woo woo thing! In vision, (men) your women - your girl on the eve of prom night when you started out that day...planning for that special - wonderful - night that you have strategically mapped out...to get you some!! Sounds a little caveman! But it drives the passion and stimulation to put on that Tux, dress up, and get some flowers or something to impress your girl. In vision, (woman) your man - your boy friend, on the eve of prom night when you started out that day...planning for that special - wonderful - night that you have strategically mapped out...to dance, party, eat dinner, hold hands, walk maybe along the sea shore, etc!! You see, men and women often times have different expectations. But, the different mapping initiatives, bridge the excitement of both destination for that evening.

2. Think Prom Night for your Date Night for Tomorrow Night!

Plan the location and event around satisfying each others expectations for that special night out. Write out what you both would like to experience! Make it fun!

3. Pick a Location that is near by, but not down the street!

- Date Nights have different status based on the mapping of the event!! Here is where the fun and imagination can stimulate a routine inexpensive or deep and expensive event!! You know your budget and your timeline. The key is to put on your imagination and plan the event together!! The difference with the Prom of yesterday is that you have better control of the outcome (no parents with curfews).

4. Don't just go To the Movies!! Pick Your Romantic Locations like you would pick a three course meal!! Appetizer, Main Course, and the Desert!!

Think in the three course meal concept and your Date Night Will Be Pleasantly Successful every time.

a. Appetizer - How you get to the date location (Main Course) - the flowers - the little gift (just because I love you gift). Something small maybe or flowers sent to her office or his the day prior to the main course! Use your imagination!! Could be 3-4 day prior to the Main Course (Location). Could be, each other taking turns picking and planning the Main Course! No rules!!

b. Main Course - The date location (Main Course) - Nice Restaurant - Walk on the Beach in the evening - with a summer breeze blowing against your backs - use your creative imagination. The Mystery of that day stimulates the expectations for the Desert!!! No rules!!

c. Desert - Getting Some!! Foreplay - having creative sex!! Listen, you are married!! Have unprotected sex (if you are done with having kids and your system can't produce or you have internal medication for birth control)!! The best thing about marriage is that you can have playful, pleasurable, magnificent sex!! The desert compliments the Appetizer & Main Course! Make it special like a cheese cake is after your main course at the Cheese Cake Factory!! Warm, Sweet, and Sticky!!

5. Make Date Night more then Just Tomorrow Night Make your Date Nights strategic nights throughout the month!! Anticipate these date nights!! Plan your Date Nights!! Make them different kinds of Date Nights! Make them Endless Nights of stimulating puppy love!!! Date Night can be another Prom Night - if you can use your imagination, the magic can flow through your marriage again!

About the Author

You can contact Keith Jarman via his website at http://www.action-jackson-007.homestead.com or email address at actionjackson0i@aol.com

I always have a word of encouragement, hope, and possibilities!! I am a dreamer who seeks to transition most of my dreams into reality.


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